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These folks almost live in an a false reality that they have even come to believe. Sadly, I can speak from experience and being a liar can ruin your life and the lives of those around you. In the long run, it is impossible to have a long-term, healthy relationship built on mutual trust and honesty because liars are narcissists. Instead of admitting their shortcomings, their failures – their basic humanness – they will lie in order to cover it up. All of these motives have the “self” at the center. They’re not thinking about the questions, How will this impact people I care about? No, liars are very short sighted, focusing only on the immediate and easy way out of a situation.You will be left constantly wondering what is true and what is a lie and is no way to live your life.Get rid of the motivation to lie However if you are really serious about your date and want to give the relationship a decent chance, then you will need immense amount of patience to deal with a partner who is a compulsive liar.Ask those who were around when something you were told occurred what really happened and point it out.Tell him/her you don't believe them and then see how they react.Even if you are casually dating this person and far from being in a serious relationship, having to deal with lies all the time can quickly turn things sour.
The latter kind of people would occasionally come up with minor lies with the main motive of making you feel better or to hide an unpleasant truth from you.
If you are yet to develop feelings for him/her, it is far better to gently remove yourself from any possibility of a relationship.
It is very difficult for a compulsive liar to differentiate between harmless lies and those which are potentially damaging to a relationship.
For instance if your date praises your hairdo when you know it is far from perfect, it is a white lie indulged in order to make you happy or gloss over an unpalatable truth.
While responses of these people cannot be trusted completely, still you know they mean no harm.