Dating 5 months
Wish I would’ve looked at the negatives in most of my previous dealings w/ guys in my 20s. He was nice, smart, attractive, and I had enough fun with him, but something wasn’t right.We can argue that at the heart of it, every relationship is a panic relationship, operating out of the innate desire to stave off loneliness.Humans are social animals, and this extends to every aspect of personal interactions, from being nice to your coworkers to forming a necessary but taciturn communication with your bodega guy.Or maybe it’s fall and the prospect of romping through foliage is enticing.So you do it, you You go on some dates, you settle into a routine — and then what?
Perhaps you meet someone, and you’re in a delicate emotional state, emerging from a long, drawn out breakup.You’re giving him a free pass on his efforts, all because you’re passionate about him. If a guy isn’t giving you the boyfriend behavior you deserve, there’s one perfect solution: walk, and don’t look back. I have talked to thousands of men and women to draw these conclusions.I hope you can break your “bad man” cycle right away!If you’ve struggled to understand and connect with the “right” men, do yourself a favor and put in your email address.That will put you on my priority mailing list so that you’ll get first notification when my new offering comes out in a few weeks. I feel like I knew those things, but seeing them so plainly spoken is a great (sad) wakeup call.