Dating a man with 2 baby mamas
You know, the one that says a man will continue to play the field until he stumbles upon the girl who’s different from all of the rest?This different girl will be able to use her magical “different” powers to get a confirmed bachelor to change his ways.But Ciara still decided to bet on herself despite the virtually insurmountable odds that Future would commit.Now, she’s suing him for doing what he has, in essence, always done: getting someone pregnant, leaving the mother and creating a messy aftermath. I’m neither blaming nor am I condemning Ciara or any other woman who may find herself in a similar circumstance, because I’m keenly aware of two very important facts.That elusive conversation with her that he never seems to want to have in front of you.Granted, if you’re out enjoying a meal at dinner together, then it might be rude of him to answer, but if the two of you are lazying around at the house and he’s in the position to answer the phone but yet you see that he deliberately pushes the button to send the call to voicemail, go ahead and raise your brow to that one. His awkward and nervous reaction the very first time you and his “baby momma” come face to face This particular indicator correlates with number #2.Fact number one is that men sell dreams like an aspiring rapper on the corner pushing his brand new mixtape.
Don’t be silly—no one is suggesting a formal over-the-top introduction—but some sort of introduction is warranted.
If a lying philander is out here cheating on all of the women he’s dated, there’s a good chance that he’s cheating on the amazing women, too.
And it would be just a little silly of me to think that if he cheated on every woman he dated before me, he would somehow magically stop the cheating once he and I got together.
Well, ladies, I’d just like to submit to you that many times, it’s not the woman who needs to be “different.” It’s the man who needs to grow up.
e keeps his interactions with her a “secret” One clear sign on the makings of a great relationship is having open and honest communication with your man.